"To be or not to be that is the question"

 9/16/2020

To say I was ‘upset’ with the release of “Cuties” on Netflix was an egregious understatement and inaccurately describes the assault I endured to my perception in sight, never mind the imagery of suggestive enticement to seduction which obviously needs no further explanation as to what may be expected – gratification - in where clearly sexual stimulation completely bypassed any sense of interpretation of the mind obviously, much like a drug which similarly bypasses any other senses or operations of the mind but which stimulate the body into action, or to an emotional feeling, or both – for some herein arousal, for others like me - abhorrent repulsion (you understand how slick reason or 'interpretation' was bypassed, or was that STOLEN?). Or like simply hearing a given sound of running water gives one the urge to urinate – all functions clearly of an unconscious mind prompted by the senses to put forth the body to action, the ‘impetus’ if you will and much like Pavlov's dogs simply. Putting my own disgust aside, I consider another perspective, pulled back away from those images of suggestion and enticement to answer the fundamental question of is it "Art" or similarly, can it be considered as an "expression of free speech?”

“Whether ‘tis nobler in the mind to suffer The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, Or to take arms against a sea of troubles And by opposing end them.”

No doubt in what I said thus far, and in what follows will garner mealy mouth criticisms against me, but by such condemnations, in retort, I defer to Lord’s Word; specifically, 2 Peter 2: 12 – 22. As I speak not for myself – but for the defenseless - whether it be for a child who is abhorrently and abominably USED AS A MEDIUM in the production of such craft or for the non-reasoning unstable and weak among us which continue to be entangled by the craft of evil doers for profit – where both are wholly UNREASONABLE.

Simply, the production of pornography, regardless of the form of public display, is a well defined craft of imagery which primarily panders to stimulating sexual desires rendering its context or ‘story lines’ useless and inconsequential and are much like saying to an addict to ‘derive no physical or emotional response to the drug' they are reeling in – treachery in deceptive logic in where no point of reference is given and is very cruel and demeaning in nature given they have been rendered powerless to do so to which is similarly like hearing the serpent indwelt by Satan say once again 'you shall not surely die' - given that NO POINT OF REFERENCE OF DEATH EXISTED on which to derive an accurate consideration of the decision making process, but where words of enticement in vanity led to seduction - LOOKED AT the fruit and where DESIRE was roused (Proverbs 23:31?) - it worked once before right?

 Pornography is clearly purposeful and determined, to ‘stimulate’ one singular reaction, sexual arousal. Advertising and marketing have used the “power of suggestion” for profit for decades and it is no mystery that predictive programming and games for young people illicit similarly one narrow response, as it is also purposeful and determined as these principles are well founded and long established in the study of psychology and psychiatry – a 'point of reference' unmistakably long determined and applied treacherously in all walks of life by 'bad actors' who only seek profit not quality or a bait and switch scheme obviously. It is clear that 'knowledge is power' but to which I add - 'but powerless without understanding.' More importantly, are the Lord Yeshua's Words which clearly state what is going on in this world - "My people are destroyed for the lack of knowledge" - Hosea 4:6 .

Pornography clearly fails as an “art form” for the obvious reason listed above, but also because “expression further requires the compilation process or symbolism to evoke an emotional response.” (Crown of Thorns, 2013). Embodying the imagery in a ‘story line’ defeats its own purpose in simply qualifying it loosely as an ‘art form’ by its own standards of ‘art’ - in where “it is further problematic in that no idiom exists; no characteristic style or language exists what-so-ever within the language of art itself” which simply means that the inclusion of pedophilia, to which this film attempts to legitimize, renders the entire ‘catalog’ of "art" in pornography as a device contrived for commercial profit exploitation purposes which clearly is, what it is now. The contents of the ‘catalog’ or characteristic “language” obviously are the various forms of sexual gratifications of more outward artificial gimmick means of stimulation to which the question “how do you like your porn?” is as common as “what’s for dinner?” – An item of personal preference on the menu for consumption for those of similar ‘tastes’. Therefore, no EXPRESSION exists, nor does EXPLORATION by reason of the graphic ‘instruction’ as both expression and exploration are requirements to INTERPRETATION of art or the operation of the mind simply, but where WERE clearly STOLEN and replaced with an artificial stimulation device to which now children are NOW openly being made to be the very idiom, the symbolic ‘medium’ or item on the menu, for this public consumption of ‘prurient interests’ as an ‘art form’ obviously to which conversely, the production of such "art" is NOT limited to mutual consent but of exploitation and abuse.

 Again, where an ‘item’ for which the contrived device is sexual stimulation which illicit, creates, draws (evokes) or provokes a singular narrow sexual biological arousal response enabling ‘prurient interests’ to thrive and grow, culminating with the expectation of gratification by some other physical means - whether it be by deception or force. A cheap, poorly written ‘instruction manual’ regardless of the story line context or content provided as it is used singularly to describe the form as it relates to it's category (rape, incest, pedophilia, bondage, etc..) and clearly are wholly irrespective of changing technologies as it relates to public display.

Pornography fails to recognize the victims to such abuses and similarly fails to provide simple reasonable redress or 'make one whole' these victims of exploitation and abuse, but where curiously sexual dysfunctions have increased within a relationship and addictions are directly as a result from such unwarranted and unreasonable amplified sexual stimulation to which crimes of rape, incest and the countless unwanted pregnancies and abortions, as well as other murders of silence perpetuates this vicious cycle. 

Moreover it fails as a form of an ‘expression’ of speech for the same reason – interpretation of speech requires an idiom on which interpretation (quantification) may be made and the question of ‘obscenity’ – moot by this context - given that it has equated itself to repeatedly screaming out "fire" without manifestation or simply 'just cause' to do so. Obviously, for the unstable, immature and weak, this is a deliberate stumbling block for humanity as well on which the ideas and pathway to dignity itself are destroyed and are indiscernible.

 Again, INTERPRETATION has been stolen by way of the absence of expression and exploration and therefore fails to qualify as an art form in and of itself; and in addition, fails to qualify to an 'expression of free speech' given that quantification is nonexistent and where now the question whether a ‘sexual deviant’ or “prurient interest” should require a ‘stumbling block’ on which to further trap and enslave the individual into a state which perpetually is one where the pursuits to satisfaction and contentment or simply ‘happiness’ are to never deliberately be fully realized outside of their biological response as they were obviously stolen to begin with – never mind that as citizens, all rights and pursuits have been similarly negated.

 Always chasing a feeling and never an honest relationship with another – the reduction of the individual, a 'person', into a thing "TO BE" used, abused and thrown away at will - the altruistic VALUE or the sum total of a being to a "person" being regarded more by the sum of parts simply but where such standards are set arbitrarily by culture traditions given by civilized societies. The meaning behind dignity itself negated as it is God given but where clearly persons are reduced/subjugated to an impulse survival mode of the fittest frame of mindset like that of a mindless animal to which now begs the question as to just what are these ramifications set against dignity as they relate to the principles of freedom itself?

“To die – to sleep, No more: and by a sleep to say we end The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks That flesh is heir to: ‘tis a consummation Devoutly to wish’d. To die to sleep; To sleep, perchance to dream – ay, there’s the rub: For in that sleep of death what dreams may come, When we shuffled off this mortal coil, Must give us pause – there’s the respect That makes calamity of so long life. For who should bear the whips and scorns of time, Th’ oppressor’s wrong, the proud man’s contumely, the pangs of dispriz’d love, the law’s delay, The insolence of office, and the spurns That patient merit of th’ unworthy takes, When he himself might his quietus make With a bare bodkin? Who would fardels bear, to grunt and sweat under a wearly life, But that the dread of something after death, The undiscovere’d country, from whose bourn No traveller returns, puzzles the will, And makes us rather bear those ills we have Than fly to others that we know not of?”

The Supreme Court of the United States, I pray will revisit and 'right the wrong' as it were to this injustice of bondage itself and be the "voice" to the defenseless; as it is sensory deprivation in its most cruelest form and no doubt the reason why the demand for artificial 'sex toys' has rendered an individual useless in interpreting stimuli of the body (sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch) other than to one's expectations to sexual gratification, and much less are astute enough in interpreting sensations/expressions within the context of tender intimate human interpersonal friendship relationship gestures.

 Another form of egregious brutish abuse is where employment or other authority positions of 'advantage' are simply predatory sexually which exploits and extorts youth to which I believe rightly deserves the death penalty - it is the clear subjugation of the person to a 'thing' given to brutish sexual appetites and expectations of gratification. These forms of abuse has enslaved many into a perpetual state of arousal and frenzy much like how rooting swine are unaware of themselves outside consumption, and even less to the presence of others and are driven solely by the snout of consumption which further manifests not only in hostile every day work environments but in lost quality productivity.

The very absence of the principles of dignity which are not fostered within the nature of individuals but where behavior is enforced as Pavlov's dogs is exemplified by the cadence and demeanor of such persons, which again now robs them of any sense of virtue and dignity - a vicious self imposed cycle given by ignorance and impulse.

 More simply, as a 'sophisticated' society of peace in perpetual defense of FREEDOM in where friendships are again "to be" fostered with care, consideration and thoughtfulness for the being of the person and not on the imaginations of sexual expectations - WE KNOW that life itself has meaning and purpose in the simple actions of edifying one another ... but where I question --- ARE WE COLLECTIVELY NOW ROOTING SWINE of consumption and envy instead or can one person make a difference, have a sense of reverence to God firstly and have considerations or a sense of direction other than to temporal lusts of desire "or not to be" 'evolved' to a higher state of being but obviously devolved into mindless brute beasts preying upon the other - "made to be taken and destroyed"?

 “Thus conscience does make cowards of us all, And thus the native hue of resolution Is sicklied o’er with the pale cast of thought, And enterprises of great pitch and moment With this regard their currents turn awry And lose the name of action.”

By William Shakespeare – from Hamlet, spoken by Hamlet.

Source: Poetry Foundation – poetryfoundation.org

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Pedophilia and Me

 Pedophilia and Me

4/15/2022

Edit: 7/17/2022

 Recalling a memory where I sit on a rock outcropping ledge at the Sandia Tramway overlooking the city of Albuquerque with hot chocolate in hand and remember my seventeen year old self who asked “what now Lord Jesus” as I situate myself more comfortably on the cold stone. I looked back on my life to the instances that brought me great emotional pain and confusion but where these are the very roots to where my behavior and my regard for others changed, a pivotal point in my life clearly that moved me into young adulthood. What does this city have to offer a person like me that is heavily laden by the betrayal, treachery and brutality by all manner of figures of authority - priests, nuns, teachers, parents and extended family members? Clearly there was nothing here for me to hold on to I had reasoned as I  considered a career in the Armed Forces more seriously. A place I thought where a sense of focus and commitment (action words of faith simply) would be welcomed and where I could be protected as well.

The question of Hope’s existence in meaningful work of my hands given by the product of my mind and enabled by opportunities and/or continuing higher education I sought to define in terms of direction but in where my pursuits towards any sense of happiness of my own may be obtained I questioned more carefully. Do I seek such things elsewhere, given that only in divine intervention in one’s journey through this life can change the heart and mind of anyone provided one is so inclined to question and seek out for themselves to begin with? But where can I find solace and peace as well in the chaos around me? The nation rips itself apart with the Vietnam War while the impact of devolved systems takes it’s toll on healthcare, education, and labor - given that solar technologies and other corporations move “quietly” to outsource labor and product manufacturing in the interest of “reducing costs” to the dismay and rightful outrage of citizens and where trying to make sense of it all makes no sense at all for my immature mind. It was best to just maintain a groove and move out of the way and finding that “groove” is where I was at, as the rhythm to the “vibes” sucked and proved meaningless.

Welcome to the 1970’s or the “age of innocence” where the “forgotten generation” came of age then only to now "get in the way" and question those unchanged observed influences of the world of what clearly were the embodied forces of honor and duty expressed in courage as they clashed with the face of overt treachery prompted/deflected by the hidden human forms of vanity and greed which are given now in terms of reason to what has always constituted a question of faithfulness itself - but as applied to one's self simply in the midst of the continued and now intensified swirling emotional collective tempests as one nation under God and where similarly the increased spiritual forces of incarnate evil doers who clearly are given to self-serving ‘advantage’ or Mammon simply. The face of evil remains the same obviously, whether it appeared yesterday or today, similarly the QUESTION of faithfulness remains and stands for each person to make a decision measured by time itself as God has ordained. Curious thing that in not making a decision, the decision is made regardless. 

The willingness of many to betray another and where “love is cold” in the face of advantage is the norm today. A self-protective state of mind and heart I know well given it is the point of entry with childhood traumas in where the "spirit of Jezebel" enters bearing fruit with behaviors stemming from Vanity such as pride manifested in narcissism and  where I was also part of that problem and not the solution as it were - as my heart was unmoved, self-seeking and indifferent as well … but "all forms of refuge has it’s price” - 1975 Eagles, “Lyin’ eyes” and I did not want to be HER. I wanted more out of life but as a child reduced and used as a thing for the satisfaction of others and in a perpetual state of emptiness and unfulfilled only to lend myself now to be further abused as a young adult woman and again be thrown away and where my military service proved to be on the very front lines of the intensified spiritual warfare battle front to which I was clearly unprepared for. Growing up is never easy and all manner of betrayals are painful regardless and where bitterness and resentment take root with a firm hold in our hearts, "bands" of bondage made tighter/worse by unforgiveness. 

 In the corner of my mind are all those memories where as a child I was made/groomed by apathetic neglect to be an object of sexual desire to an adult and where in my early teenage years I was also drugged, beaten and raped. The evil making/grooming by the world’s indifferent cruelty and then categorized as a common ‘psychological profile’ or given a “Scarlet Letter” if you will; a “product” made by reputation given by my conduct as a result of my choices in response to my environment and reduced to be nothing more than as a promiscuous woman, a whore by my own actions and conduct obviously and where there are little to no ideas of self-worth nor where noble expectations are nurtured. Much less am I capable of comprehending the bigger ideas of integrity and dignity as applied to oneself given the well established third rung Prussian education/religion systems persists and where such ideas of integrity and dignity are recognized or translated in the abstract sense to be as literal objects obtained through titles, fame, wealth and power and obviously false given the attitude remains unchanged but nonetheless illustrates fully Hosea 4: 6 - “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: …”

Satan’s lies are many; notwithstanding are those given by ‘men of science’ whose  interests have repeatedly demonstrated a singular sense of self-serving PROFIT over nurturing the well being of another given by such as those of the devolved healthcare systems where specifically those that have researched the life of Sigmund Freud for example, have shared what knowledge they have found. A man of science and father of the mind, but a man unrestrained by his own lustful heart and mind as well. Unrepentant and unclean in a spiritual sense, and where his understanding of the mind is limited to the workings of the flesh and nothing more; given he similarly was heavily laden with the guilt and shame of his own ravenous heart and where such ideas of the spiritual nature of humanity he could never ever grasp or much less define in terms which could remove such burdens of emotional oppression and fracturing of the mind (or "double-mindedness) as he demonstrably rejected God - “Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.” 2 Timothy 3: 7 - "the blind leading the blind". Such derision are upon all things or systems/devices of and to this world that serve Mammon and not God to which none in their “natural state” have insight into this phenomenon, and much less are able to overcome it - unless they choose being “reborn” simply which obviously changes that “state of being”.

Self evaluation and a righteous course of action is commanded by God, BEFORE one sits at the communion table so as not to drink instead of the cup of damnation, but where such concepts are foreign to the hedonistic mindset of gluttony simply.

The guilt and shame I felt for many years, compounded with my vanity and my own willfulness in selfishness, was lifted when I sought [Micah 7:9] and accepted God’s forgiveness and asked to be “reborn” [John 3: 3-5] from a miserable state of existence I was in and how I can openly speak by experience to these sexual crimes which continue to be perpetrated on children. Where, in my opinion, such denigrating abusive people, or demonic sadist simply, justly deserve the death penalty - as they refuse to live peacefully with others, namely children and/or are unwilling to work to foster confidence in positions of authority within institutions that garner public confidence but where INSTEAD use their positions of authority as advantage to prey on the vulnerable and weak among us as demonstrated by their own willfulness in this given course of action against the vulnerable - REPUGNANT AND INTOLERABLE. Furthermore, this penalty matters not as to "who" they believe they are, whether it be given by titles, fame, or wealth - politicians, law enforcement, clergy, actors, teachers, etc.. - no "respecter" of persons clearly or separate tiers of justice simply.

 “But these as natural brute beasts, made to be taken and destroyed...”. 2 Peter 2: 12 - A JUST STANDARD OF CONDUCT.

Such “minor attracted persons” are no different than a common thief, but are more vicious and ravenous in taking what does not belong to them obviously but where such pleasure belongs to the person the individual has chosen to be “joined” to in Holy Matrimony. It is a fact that a woman carries and has made herself the dumping “ground” of each man’s cells she has had intercourse with to which no amount of “cleansing” can ever remove them and it is no wonder that incidence of cancer of the cervix specifically has increased and of which I am a survivor of by the Grace of God and where I faced my mortality [Micah 7: 9] in terms of questioning where my eternal resting place would be. These “minor attracted persons” are being made to be another form of “wolves in sheep’s clothing” as it were given by the overt stupidity of the ‘blind leading the blind’ under the banner of “inclusion” simply and are purveyors themselves of degeneracy itself obviously and have zero understanding of what edification means much less as applied to humanity as a whole. Such are more aptly described as "hateful birds" of prey as it were, like vultures, that sense/eyeball the weakness/death of the flesh and swoop in to pick off the flesh.

Is it reasonable for an adult to look upon a child for sexual gratification given the child looks to an adult for guidance and protection? Is it equitable? A resounding NO for the stated obvious reasons. Furthermore, this world bombards and exposes subject matter that the mind of a child is incapable of comprehending, given the abstract nature of much of it, and clearly through “human development” does a person reach the age in where navigating through abstract concepts develops during their late twenties and is expected by an adult world to function fully in society.

Clearly the intent behind this movement to legitimize “minor attracted person’s” is to destroy the very fabric of society as a whole by making children a commodity (Stockholm syndrome) accessible as objects of self serving sexual pleasure to be used, abused and later thrown away at will with no penalty whatsoever - given none exist in what is regarded or classified as “art forms”. Pornography has long made “children” the art medium itself, the idiom of art so the leap towards declaring them to be an open “map” commodity is not much of a stretch given the “elites” continued trafficking shadow businesses pandering while peddling in the science and art of body parts, the market supply of adrenochrome and in addition to sex slaves or just plain human trafficking. Ironic that all these “industries” have one thing in common? Thievery and where now the two thieves crucified with Christ the Lord Yeshua comes to mind, one accepted his wrong doing and asked to be remembered while the other mocked and challenged the Lord God. "LIFE imitating art" so to speak, but is as it was in the Garden of Eden with no point of reference to death itself given or where in other words, no sense of "interpretation" took place simply? "It worked once before right?" - incorporated by reference - "To be or not to be that is the question" - 9/16/2020.

Which then begs the question, what is dignity itself and can it be "purchased" and by Whom?  

As I write these words on “good Friday” the day of remembrance in where our Lord Yeshua was beaten and crucified for mankind’s disobedience, I am grateful that our Father spared not His begotten Son and is the second perfect Adam in where His obedience unto death was exemplified and where the power of the Holy Spirit was known and exemplified as well as specifically shown through the resurrection of His body.

Through continued study in the Word of God through the years, and WORK to my own salvation [Philippians 2: 12] discovering each of the five heavenly crowns and where I have stored my treasures captured by moments in time, I have found our Lord to be very kind to those that obey and His mercies, as written, are renewed each day. I marvel how generous He is and gives more than is asked for and I delight in looking for Him in situations or events I face each day; but more importantly I am grateful that in all that I have grown to learn about the identity and nature of God, is that I am able to teach my grandchildren and anyone that seeks to understand what I have concluded; in that while this world may seem real, they are but moments or "selfies" captured and recorded in time. Memories, reserved for the time of judgement and just rewards right down to the intentions of the heart that are obviously hidden from others in this world but where are the only “things” we do take with us into the next world and where we stand now “naked” before Him; either to be excused by the blood of the Lamb followed by our acts of righteousness/integrity and just rewards, or to be accursed and condemned by our own conscience, given that the veil was torn to the "holy of holies" within our minds. The murmurings of the heart translated into clear imaginations of the mind and put into physical actions (or impetus) without the transfiguration power of the Holy Spirit, obviously rendering "religions" useless given the very definition to "religion" itself are "ideas about God taught by a man or group of men to the masses" and it matters not what they choose to call themselves as a denomination clearly. The quality of the moments spent with each other are what matter the most and more importantly is recognizing the fact that each of us are more than the sum of our outward physical parts as the fruit and gifts of the Holy Spirit reveal in practice and obedience but where sadly are often overlooked and few know the difference between what is the fruit and what are the gifts of the Holy Spirit and one remains unchanged with the same attitudes of bondage, vanity given by pride/narcissism, or the "mystery of inequity" simply. Our “environment”, as brutal as it can and may be, can and will never define us as a person, much less prevent any from seeking and accepting forgiveness or experience the trans-formative power of the Holy Spirit with a second chance at life itself and simply being a child of God - BUT, clearly the decisions each of us do make within those environments, are in fact what do define each of us as a person. Devaluing while undervaluing our personal or individual self-worth as a human being, a person, forms the collective herd of rooting swine with zero "integrity" in that course of action obviously and much sadder is hearing the rooting sounds of willful ignorance passed as blue ribbon trophies of fattened empty titles, fame or wealth given that the Mammon they choose to serve…  serves itself. 

"Woe to the crown of pride..." - Isaiah 28. 

While we wait as a Church to be removed or "moved out of the way" from His coming wrath upon the earth’s inhabitants as prophecies concurrently unfold at great speed, as He promised He would make quick work of it, the final phase of our transfiguration is clearly at hand in our redemption "caught up" away from the stench of this vile world and where the dead first hear as I am reminded of by John 5 and where, what is "left" of this nation, pun intended, "...is become the inhabitation of devils, and the hold of every foul spirit, and cage of every unclean and hateful bird." Revelation 18: 2. 

Be blessed people as we remember our Lord’s resurrection during Passover. 

   

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"I see said the blind man to his deaf wife"...

Repost: 7/17/2022

 “I see said the blind man to his deaf wife”....

As a “babe in Christ” during the eighties, I am grateful to learn a lesson of life by observation instead of by experience as imparted by the Holy Spirit of God.
I worked as a warehouse store-worker to help my husband through a very difficult time in our history, “Reganomics” at the Commissary – a military grocer. Military life is very hard on young families and I am grateful that Second Lady Pence sought to address transition problems associated with active duty while her husband served as Vice President for the executive branch of our government.
As a continuing higher education student, I picked up classes as I could, given the schedule I was required to work and would on my lunch break read in the break room or other seemingly quiet areas. I was “drawn” to observe the conversation of three cashiers given the nature of their conversation. One cashier would go on bragging about how they had such a marvelous time when their husband’s were temporarily assigned to another base for specialized training, while the second woman agreed and encouraged the third one to come along as “girls night out” would be “fun”.
The time came when the third woman declared that her husband would be away for the weekend and was excited to go out with them for "girls night out" and made plans. The last time I saw the third young woman, she sat alone in the break room and cried. I felt very badly for her and asked another cashier why the woman cried. The cashier essentially told me that she had cheated on her husband and lost everything; her husband, her children and her livelihood and that the “reputation” of the first cashier was disclosed as being an ambitious opportunist, seeking the rank of the third woman’s husband and the “benefits” it provided – she traded “up” essentially.
When I considered the matter, I did not “feel” badly for her as she made the choice to engage in this treachery to begin with and each got what they PAID for – ill gotten “gain” – AND would and have REAPED WHAT WAS SOWN.
The flesh driven worldly have one purpose, to please themselves clearly and the cost are very high obviously to the unsuspecting. Evil will always seek with nuances of guile for one to LOOSE SIGHT OF WHAT IS IMPORTANT THROUGH VANITY – HEREIN, ENTICEMENT OBVIOUSLY.
The Word of God, in the book of proverbs, is replete in wisdom as to the "KINDS" OF FLATTERY the EVIL NATURE OF ENTICEMENT will use against us in this world and clearly the Holy Spirit, our only TRUE TEACHER in the very Word of God readily gives understanding/MEAT to those that SEEK IT – as RELIGIONS themselves have long been subverted in withholding RIGHTEOUS instruction to the faithful but then again, how can one teach what one does not possess? Abhorrently just as there are many false prophets, so too is the propensity for one to hold an advantage over another, as well as personal material gain and NOT the edification of the CHURCH itself SADLY.
An unrepentant and unclean person or self-willed simply we see makes grievous poor choices and fall victim to those which seek to covet; as both have neither the insight nor wisdom to discern, much less are able to further recognize what influences of the world are detrimental to their spiritual walk. They are and remain, blind as well as deaf obviously seeking their own way in pursuing the desires of the heart. But predictably, will continue to assign blame to others (false witness) to ease their suffering; but where “misery” does in fact love company as it seeks to escape self-condemnation in “victim-hood” from again, the unwise and unsuspecting - pity parties in other words. A vicious cycle clearly, never learning how NOT to make the same mistake over again.

Nope, not buying it – “you made your bed, you lay in it” AND SQUARE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.
SEEK FORGIVENESS FROM THOSE THAT HAVE BEEN HURT IN THIS CALLOUSNESS SO THAT YOU DON’T REPEAT THIS STUPIDITY AND HEARTACHE AGAIN.
The phrase and MEANING BEHIND “I see said the blind man to his deaf wife” becomes clear given that understanding and more importantly, COMPREHENSION comes from the very SPIRIT OF GOD.
“BUT SEEK YE FIRST THE KINGDOM OF GOD, AND HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS; AND ALL THESE THINGS SHALL BE ADDED UNTO YOU.” - - MATTHEW 6:33.

In conclusion, had any of these women been faithful women of God to begin with, they would not have lost sight of what was truly important and more significantly would have "delighted in the Lord" in gratefulness for that which they did have. Then He could have GIVEN THEM the desires to their hearts - Psalm 37: 4. But sadly the harder lesson of life here illustrates fully 2 Timothy 3: 6,7;

"For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth."

Who could KNOW THE HEART but the One that not only made it but when asked of Him, had cleansed and repaired it?

"I see said the blind man to his deaf wife"...

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